Only few pages taken from book
The Rights of Children (Part-1)
31 pages book can be downloaded from any of the 3 links
31 pages book can be downloaded from any of the 3 links
For each right either verse from Holy Quran is presented or hadith is mentioned
(Written by: Mirza Ehteshamuddin Ahmed)
All praises are for Almighty, Most Merciful Allah, and may peace descend upon his final prophet, the mercy to this universe, Muhammad and all those who follow his way until the Last Day.
Children are the fruits of the marital relationship and a pleasure in this life. In fact, parents must train their children so that they become solace (comfort, support, coolness) of their eyes in this life and hereafter. The responsibility of Children lies on parents (both mother and father), they would be accountable on the day of judgement for their children's upbringing religious education ..etc.
Islamic Shari`ah (i.e. Islamic Law) gives extensive details about each and every aspect of life. Islam is a complete way of life.
Parent-child relation is a reciprocal one. Scholars have categorized "The Rights of Children (Duties and responsibilities of Parents)" into 10 basic rights which are as follows
(1) Upon birth- (1a) give him or her good name
(1b) Adhan in the ear (1d) circumcise him.
(1d) Make Aqiqah [sacrifice], to take some of the baby hair
(2) Children have the right to be protected not to be killed
(2a) About "FAMILY PLANNING" ask the scholars –
(2b) THE CHILD HAS A RIGHT TO LIFE
(3) Children have the right to be fed and clothed
(3a) Mothers may breastfeed their children 2 years
(3b) Children have a right to a standard of living
(3c) Pious people's families would all be in Paradise
(4) Right to Education-(4a) Childs first school is mother-
"mother tongue" is the best language
(4b) Islamic Education
(4c) Scientific or worldly matters related education
(5) Right to love and affection
(5a) Ninety-nine parts of Mercy is with Allah
(5b) prophet (pbh) loved the children greatly
(6) Right to be well provided (materially)-Welfare of the child
(6a) Treat the children equally
(7) Arrange/accept a good spouse for your child's marriage
(8) Adults to give appropriate respect to children
(9) Inheritance rights (birth right or heritage property rights)
(10) Pray for their childrens' well being-ness
(11) Protect Children from bad friends and evil companions
1 – Upon birth of children
(1a) give him or her good name
(1b) Adhan in the ear (1c) circumcise
(1d) Make Aqiqah [sacrifice], to take some of the baby hair
There is Prophetic tradition narrated by AbuWahb Al-Jushami says: "Keep the names of prophets, the most desirable names by Allah are Abdullah and Abdur-Rahmaan, and names that depict honesty such as Haarith (planter) and Hammaam (thoughtful). The most disliked names are Harb (battle)
and Murrah (bitter)." (Abu Dawood 4932)
2 - Children have the right to be protected
Guidance from Holy Quran
Allah says in Quran:
(1) "O ye who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is Men and Stones (Surah Al Tahrim 66 / 6)
(2) Your wealth and your children are but a trial, and Allah has with Him a great reward. (Al-Taghabun 64/15)
(3) And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you. Indeed, their killing is ever a great sin.
( Bani Israil 17/31)
Guidance from Sunnah of Prophet (pbuh)
(1) Allah's Apostle, PBH said: "Upon death, man's deeds will (definitely) stop except for three deeds, namely: a continuous charitable fund, endowment or goodwill; knowledge left for people to benefit from; and pious righteous and God-fearing child who continuously prays Allah the Almighty, for the soul of his parents." (Muslim 1631)
(2) The Prophet (pbh) said, "All of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards. (wards=children, property, possessions....etc.) The ruler is a guardian and the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring (children) ; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards." (Bukhari 7/128)
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