30 October 2011

Help Palestine [hidayahnet] ~~~Benefits of Being Polite~~~

 


Benefits of Being Polite

We all believe in the philosophy that the essence of life is talking. Communicating 
with others is as necessary as food. If we dont, we tend to fall ill. Today people are 
rarely talking.

The  art  of conversation  has almost died down. People just usually sit and chat in 
their office breaks about things that are not even worth thinking about. Lets face it; 
we  all  are  going towards doom where each one of us is talking to pass/kill time. 
The art of using communication is no more existing. People are concerned about 
others influence in their lives and not about their influence in others life.

It  is an  unbelievable  thing  that  an  effective  communication through polite words 
can  have  wonderful impact on you and others lives as well. You can win the hearts 
of many people, climb the corporate ladder, have promotions but not have wonderful 
relationship with people around you.

The  path  to a  successful life comes thorough the stairs of politeness. An act of 
politeness can do wonders that no monetary thing can do. Let us go deep in the 
art of efficient speaking by these methods.

Talking about ideas and not people

Its  truly  said, great  minds talk about ideas and small minds talk about people. 
Politeness is an attitude of life. Talking  about  ideas heightens your politeness 
towards  innovations  and  stimulates  your  mind too.  This  is  effective for the 
speaker  and  the listener both. To start talking  about  people you can breathe 
out  all  negative energies about anyone: latest  crush,  which dress she wears, 
which  perfume she uses, her bad attitude. The idea is that everything you talk 
about  people usually comes negative. This develops a feeling of self love and 
comparison at all means. You do not value your life as much as you do to others.

Using intellect instead of the tongue
Usually people chatter on at length not worrying about the impact it would have 
on others.  Since  people are so occupied in themselves theyd rather talk about 
themselves only. This instigates them to speak rubbish endlessly. Have you ever 
thought how much of an impact we can have on others by our words? By trying 
to use our brains before speaking, we will save others sentiments and preserve 
a healthy relationship between our near ones.

Avoiding gossip
The one who usually starts a gossip or backbiting about someone does not know 
that  he is  the  one  to have  the last  laugh.  People  who start commenting and 
spreading rumors about others usually end up in a muck of politics and bickering 
about  themselves  from  the other end. Such people should be avoided at arm's 
length. Even listening to gossip is as harmful since the listener had the power to 
listen  to  negative  communication.  This  unhealthy gossiping could have been 
stopped if the listener would have ignored the speaker.

Exchange of compliments
We should not limit our compliment intake be restricted to our close relatives. 
People like our helpers such as servants, cleaners, house maids are those on 
whom we can count on. Speaking politely to them will ensure that your day is 
made. They are the ones who offer your services to make your life comfortable. 
So we should make endeavors to enrich their lives by complimenting and 
praising them.

Look for positive things in negative people
We  all  have  negative  and  positive  sides.  Nobody on this earth has a squeaky 
clean  nature. We all have flaws, however some people are observed negatively 
by their rude behavior and we become very judgmental about them putting them 
in  the  negative category. We should understand that people who are rude have 
their own weaknesses. They do not choose to be like that. Frustrations at work or
domestic  front  make  them  act in  this behavior. Such people should be offered 
more  help  than  others  comparatively.  Talking  politely  with them will make a 
difference in their lives and yours too.

Feel positive about you all the time
Quite  often we do not realize that we subconsciously become negative. Pent up 
emotions and unfulfilled desires make us behave rudely towards others and emit 
negative  radiations  from the body. Thus we tend to overreact and become rude 
and  harsh  to  others  in  some  or the other way. This might demolish the social 
circle  that  we  have. So politeness in the hearts at all means will result in polite 
attitude.

Whatever is rested in your heart is bound to come out in the open some or the 
other  day.  Make  sure  you  have  a prosperous life with a polite attitude and 
selfless love.  This  will  make you immortal in the hearts of millions as people 
are going to remember for your polite words and not by your status.

People with big positions come and go but it is only their humble nature that 
draws  millions  of  people towards them. Their polite words filled to the brim
 with modesty and love melt the hearts of even the rudest amongst the crowd. 
By talking politely to all we can make an impact on others lives.


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No one else can ever make your choices for you. 
Your choices are yours alone. They are as much 
a part of you as every breath you will take, 
every moment of your life.
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You cannot manage your life if you do not manage
your self. You cannot manage your self if you do
not manage your choices. Manage your choices, 
and you will manage your life.


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