Benefits of Being Polite
We all believe in the philosophy that the essence of life is talking. Communicating
with others is as necessary as food. If we dont, we tend to fall ill. Today people are
rarely talking.
The art of conversation has almost died down. People just usually sit and chat in
their office breaks about things that are not even worth thinking about. Lets face it;
we all are going towards doom where each one of us is talking to pass/kill time.
The art of using communication is no more existing. People are concerned about
others influence in their lives and not about their influence in others life.
It is an unbelievable thing that an effective communication through polite words
can have wonderful impact on you and others lives as well. You can win the hearts
of many people, climb the corporate ladder, have promotions but not have wonderful
relationship with people around you.
The path to a successful life comes thorough the stairs of politeness. An act of
politeness can do wonders that no monetary thing can do. Let us go deep in the
art of efficient speaking by these methods.
Talking about ideas and not people
Its truly said, great minds talk about ideas and small minds talk about people.
Politeness is an attitude of life. Talking about ideas heightens your politeness
towards innovations and stimulates your mind too. This is effective for the
speaker and the listener both. To start talking about people you can breathe
out all negative energies about anyone: latest crush, which dress she wears,
which perfume she uses, her bad attitude. The idea is that everything you talk
about people usually comes negative. This develops a feeling of self love and
comparison at all means. You do not value your life as much as you do to others.
Using intellect instead of the tongue
Usually people chatter on at length not worrying about the impact it would have
on others. Since people are so occupied in themselves theyd rather talk about
themselves only. This instigates them to speak rubbish endlessly. Have you ever
thought how much of an impact we can have on others by our words? By trying
to use our brains before speaking, we will save others sentiments and preserve
a healthy relationship between our near ones.
Avoiding gossip
The one who usually starts a gossip or backbiting about someone does not know
that he is the one to have the last laugh. People who start commenting and
spreading rumors about others usually end up in a muck of politics and bickering
about themselves from the other end. Such people should be avoided at arm's
length. Even listening to gossip is as harmful since the listener had the power to
listen to negative communication. This unhealthy gossiping could have been
stopped if the listener would have ignored the speaker.
Exchange of compliments
We should not limit our compliment intake be restricted to our close relatives.
People like our helpers such as servants, cleaners, house maids are those on
whom we can count on. Speaking politely to them will ensure that your day is
made. They are the ones who offer your services to make your life comfortable.
So we should make endeavors to enrich their lives by complimenting and
praising them.
Look for positive things in negative people
We all have negative and positive sides. Nobody on this earth has a squeaky
clean nature. We all have flaws, however some people are observed negatively
by their rude behavior and we become very judgmental about them putting them
in the negative category. We should understand that people who are rude have
their own weaknesses. They do not choose to be like that. Frustrations at work or
domestic front make them act in this behavior. Such people should be offered
more help than others comparatively. Talking politely with them will make a
difference in their lives and yours too.
Feel positive about you all the time
Quite often we do not realize that we subconsciously become negative. Pent up
emotions and unfulfilled desires make us behave rudely towards others and emit
negative radiations from the body. Thus we tend to overreact and become rude
and harsh to others in some or the other way. This might demolish the social
circle that we have. So politeness in the hearts at all means will result in polite
attitude.
Whatever is rested in your heart is bound to come out in the open some or the
other day. Make sure you have a prosperous life with a polite attitude and
selfless love. This will make you immortal in the hearts of millions as people
are going to remember for your polite words and not by your status.
People with big positions come and go but it is only their humble nature that
draws millions of people towards them. Their polite words filled to the brim
with modesty and love melt the hearts of even the rudest amongst the crowd.
By talking politely to all we can make an impact on others lives.
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No one else can ever make your choices for you.
Your choices are yours alone. They are as much
a part of you as every breath you will take,
every moment of your life.
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You cannot manage your life if you do not manage
your self. You cannot manage your self if you do
not manage your choices. Manage your choices,
and you will manage your life.
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