Hidayah & Petunjuk: November 2014

29 November 2014

Help Palestine [hidayahnet] What're the Rights of Parents?

The Rights of Parents- Part 1

A true believer must love Allah most, then more than his own self he should love Prophet Mohmammed (Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him-pbh). Later on, the aspect or phase of family or human rights stage comes. Each member of the family has rights and obligations. The preferential sequence of the family rights is mother, father, children, wife, maternal aunt etc.

only 4 pages taken from book

27pages book can be downloaded from any of the 2 links

http://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single/en_Rights_of_Parents.pdf

or http://en.islamstory.com/uploads/multimedia/books/muslim_character/rights_of_parents.pdf

Parents give us innumerable (countless) favors. They provide protection, food and clothing to the newly born. The mother sacrifices her comforts and sleep to provide comfort to her children. The father works hard to provide for their physical, educational and psychological (and spiritual) needs.

It is a matter of common courtesy that if a person does you some favor you feel obliged to him. Verbally you say 'thank you' to him. You try to repay and compensate him for his gifts and favors. You feel a sense of

gratitude towards him.

With regard to rights of parents and children I found in some families there are violations (disobedience) to islamic teachings, either due to lack of knowledge or according to adopted customs prevailing in their places.

The aim of this book is to help a common man, children in particular understand their parents rights according the islamic teachings guided by the noble Qur'an and sayings of holy Prophet Mohammed (Allah's peace and blessings be upon him).

As parents grow old their energies also decline. So it is the duty of children to help their parents in any household work in which they can help. Treating one's parents with honour also requires sustaining (supporting) them with the living costs when they are needy.

Guidance to Children from Quran and Sunnah

(a) Pious peoples' families would be in Paradise (Surah Al-Ra'd 13/22-24)

(b) "Three supplications are surely acceptable" (an oppressed, a traveler, and parents supplications for children)-

(Hadith At- Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud & Ib Majah)

(d) Want more wealth - keep good relations with relatives (Bukhari 8/14-15)

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27 November 2014

Help Palestine [hidayahnet] The Rights of Children part 3

Rights of Children-Part 3

The Child has a right to life

Neither the father nor the mother have the right to take the life of the child, whether a boy or a girl, by killing it or burying it alive, as was done by some Arabs of jahiliyyah. Young age children's murder is the oppression of a feeble, helpless human being. What would be the answer when Almighty Allah will ask the people "The female child who was buried alive is asked for what crime she was killed."

"And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked. For what sin she was killed

(Surah At-Takwir 81/8-9)

3- Children have the Right to be fed and clothed

Mothers may nurse (breast-feed) their children for two complete years for whoever wishes to complete the nursing

(Surah Baqra 2/233)

4- Right to Education

Child's first School is mother

This means a number of things for a Muslim. First, the mother is regarded as the child's first school and a source of great influence on the child's character and manners. Islam encourages learning throughout your life.

5- Right to Love and Affection

Our Prophet (pbuh) loved children greatly

A bedouin came to the prophet (pbh) and said, "You (people) kiss the boys! We don't kiss them." The prophet (pbh) said, "I cannot put mercy in your heart after Allah has taken it away from it."

(Bukhari 8/27)

6-Right to be well provided (materially)

Treat the children equally

Nu'man b. Bashir reported: My father conferred a gift upon me, and then brought me to Allah's Messenger The Holy Prophet pbh had said: Observe equity amongst your children. (Muslim 3970)

7-Arrange / accept a good spouse for your son's or daughter's marriage

First marriage or remarry son or daughter in case first spouse has died or divorced

Narrated by Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RA, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: If any- one cares for three daughters, disciplines them, marries them, and

does good to them, he will go to Paradise. (Muslim 5128)

Narrated by Abu Huraira RA, the Prophet said, "The one who looks after a widow or a poor person is like a Mujahid (warrior) who fights for Allah's Cause, or like him who performs prayers all the night and fasts all the day." (Bukhari 7/265)

8- Right to child's respect

Adults or parents must give appropriate respect to children

Prophet (pbh) while walking through the streets he would offer 'salaam' to children, play and cut jokes with them. Anas bin Malik reported that he passed by a group of boys and greeted them and said, "The prophet (pbh) used to do so."

(Bukhari 8/264)

9- Inheritance Rights

Birth Right or heritage property rights of children

10- Parents both father and mother are required to pray for their children's welfare

You can find 10 duas in Arabic and English in my book

The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "The supplications of three persons are accepted, and there is no doubt concerning their acceptance: the supplication of a father, of a traveller, and of one who is wronged (oppressed).' (Reported by Ahmad, At- Tirmidhi,Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah)

11- Protect Children from bad friends and evil companions

Best Regards : Mirza Ehteshamuddin Ahmed-

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24 November 2014

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23 November 2014

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Help Palestine [hidayahnet] The Rights of Children - Part 2

Rights of Children-Part 2

1 – Upon birth of children

(1a) give him or her good name

(1b) Adhan in the ear (1c) circumcise

(1d) Make Aqiqah [sacrifice], to take some of the baby hair

There is Prophetic tradition narrated by AbuWahb Al-Jushami says: "Keep the names of prophets, the most desirable names by Allah are Abdullah and Abdur-Rahmaan, and names that depict honesty such as Haarith (planter) and Hammaam (thoughtful). The most disliked names are Harb (battle)

and Murrah (bitter)." (Abu Dawood 4932)

2 - Children have the right to be protected

Guidance from Holy Quran

Allah says in Quran:

(1) "O ye who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is Men and Stones (Surah Al Tahrim 66 / 6)

(2) Your wealth and your children are but a trial, and Allah has with Him a great reward. (Al-Taghabun 64/15)

(3) And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you. Indeed, their killing is ever a great sin.

( Bani Israil 17/31)

Guidance from Sunnah of Prophet (pbuh)

(1) Allah's Apostle, PBH said: "Upon death, man's deeds will (definitely) stop except for three deeds, namely: a continuous charitable fund, endowment or goodwill; knowledge left for people to benefit from; and pious righteous and God-fearing child who continuously prays Allah the Almighty, for the soul of his parents." (Muslim 1631)

(2) The Prophet (pbh) said, "All of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards. (wards=children, property, possessions....etc.) The ruler is a guardian and the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring (children) ; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards." (Bukhari 7/128)

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